Okay ...spent a couple days in silly pain from my back and the drugs caused me to sleep more than I wanted too ...so no posting ....probably a good thing.
Yesterday marked a very important milestone in my life as my ex and I finalized our separation agreement and the process to move onto our divorce in June is slowing moving forward.
Now with this milestone comes a wave of emotional response ...some I expected but some I didn't.
There was the wave of disappointment that after 30 years it had to come to this ...but there was also a huge sense of relief ...not the "I dodged a bullet" kind ...but more the sense of relief one feels when you realize that things are not as bad as they seem to be and the next step you take ...albeit a baby step ...is more positive then negative.
I am very lucky that my ex and I accomplished this with respect, dignity and mutual desire to be fair. We are still cohabitating in the same house ...a necessity until it sells. It can be awkward at times ...but the house is big enough we have our own space.
So ...moving on ...it's time and we both need to.
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